If the other person is looking for some private time, the best thing to do would be to find somewhere else to go for about 20 minutes. One of your most questionable comments was: It took me about two weeks to completely stop masturbating. My partner has a low sex drive. All of your information is completely biased.
So please tell me, what's abnormal with me, if I don't masturbate at all? I accidentally turned it on tonight while plugging it into the charger and I heard strange noises, my husband was watching porn I can only assume while masturbating! Frustration, aggravation, and loneliness all mixed with famous Biblical view of guilt and duty. He packed up his things and moved to our basement. I was about to use the site as a source for a reply to a customer when I realized what kind of information you provided. Young people need a non-judgmental atmosphere in which to discover and experiment with their sexuality.
You remind me of Fred Phelps, the anti-gay preacher. There are lots of ways to be hurt by exploring sexuality at a young age. I would try not to appear confrontational. The site which is taking about this masturbation is the dirtiest site I have ever seen in my life. I read through your responses and was unpleasantly surprised to see you presenting some of your opinions as facts. Ellen and Alone, I feel your pain as I am in a similar situation. Reading comments like that will not help those kids to continue asking questions to this site if it is the only thing they trust when it comes to questions on sexuality-based material.
You are frequently condescending and judgmental which does more harm in promoting healthy masturbation habits and views than good. He can masturbate all he likes; the bedsprings or other noises are not going to prevent me from sleeping or doing whatever. He can do that on his own, as I discuss on every page of HealthyStrokes. The masturbator and I were roommates for several years. Why don't you tell him you'd like to have sex more often and see what he does about it? I strongly suggest that you revise this wording. I'd leave him a note telling him it's okay to masturbate anytime he's alone — you do it, too — but please don't do it when you're in the room trying to sleep.